How do you know when it really is the time to end it? It is never a nice thing to do, and never feels right unless you really are with a psycho. If it’s going to end, then someone is going to have to do it, and it would be better for you if you are the one to do it.

It can be hard to do, but when your relationship starts to go sour, there really is no point in keeping her hanging around.

I don’t understand people that torture themselves at the end of a relationship, you know that it’s going to end, so make it quick.


If the relationship is on it’s last legs, don’t drag out the end, think of yourself for a change, and end it quick. I think that some men keep putting it off for the sex, but if she is driving you crazy, you need to ask yourself if it really is worth it.

A lot of the time, I think that people stay together because they fear being alone. A quite large number of people do this I’m sure, but what I’m less sure of is whether it is worth putting up with a hellish relationship just because you don’t want to be on your own.

What you have to understand is that nothing will stay the same for ever. This is the same for any part of life, but very much so for relationships. We have all seen the old couple that must have been together since the dawn of time, but if you’re in a bad relationship, the chances are that this isn’t going to be you.

Once things start to go bad, you’ll usually start to rationalize it. You take the blame for it, and try to figure out where you went wrong. You look for the things that made things go sour, and figure that you can fix them.

You would just be wasting your time and effort though, regardless of the reasons, you can’t change them. If you really do want to know so you can make sure that it doesn’t happen again, wait until the relationship is over.

If you let her break up with you, the chances are that you will feel the split more, and this can lead to depression and letting things get on top of you. It’s just not worth it. If the relationship is heading that way, don’t let it get to you emotionally.

I often do this to myself, I get over-involved even if I don’t intend to spend a long time with the woman. Maybe I just want her for sex, or for someone to talk to and make me feel less lonely.

Before I know it, she’s gone and dumped me! She must have got some idea that I’m only interested in the sex, and she wanted someone to be there for her in the long term. I’d mope around for weeks, months, hell, sometimes I’ve moped for years.

The short fact is that she really isn’t worth it. Even if you had the best relationship in the world, once she has called it all off, there is nothing left. Regardless of how good your sex life with her used to be, you aren’t going to be getting any more. Sex is never worth going crazy about.

She never returns your calls.
This is a very good sign that she’s just not interested any more. She isn’t available to you any more, you can’t make plans, you know that it’s just a matter of time.


She doesn’t want to have sex.
Need I say anything about this one

All she does is nag and complain.
This is a good indicator that it is heading the way of the Dodo, and if she’s not already thinking about breaking up, you should before this gets any worse!

She always has plans.
This is another way of telling you that she doesn’t have any time for you. If she doesn’t have any time now, if you stay together, can you see this changing?

You should try and remember that you are worth more than this. If you let the relationship go on and she ends it, you will feel like the loser of the relationship. Never let sex ruin your life, or threaten your mental stability.

If the relationship is on the rocks, get out yourself, while there is still time, remember the old cliché “there’s plenty more fish in the sea”. Corny as hell, but there is some truth in it anyway. If you let her take charge and dump you, it will cause you nothing but problems.

Respect yourself, if you don’t no-one will.